Anybody with half of a mind who watched this present might see that these women had been a bunch of unsupervised, harmful, immature females on the highway to self-destruction with the final cease being jail or the cemetery. Each one in every of these females ranted and raved all through the present about being powerful, elegant and clever but none of them confirmed this.
The alleged objective of the “Dangerous Ladies Membership” present was to observe seven younger ladies with “extreme psychological points and persona issues” as they stay in a home for 4 months and have their every day interactions and interpersonal relationships with their housemates recorded. They’re presupposed to be carrying out particular objectives but I by no means heard or noticed any one in every of them do that.
There have been no objective plans in place or talked about and I by no means considered any acts of intervention (not counting that wolf-pack assault in Mexico) when issues acquired out of hand. These females had two speeds: Rage and Loopy. Their coping expertise from begin to end had been non-existent, however make no mistake, they weren’t affected by any “extreme psychological” points. They appeared to straighten up fairly fast when the Federales confirmed up and threatened them with jail after that gang assault in Mexico…simply as all unhealthy actors do.
Throughout their transient contact with the Federales, not one in every of them (Ailea or Whitney) went into their notorious rage black outs. Wonderful, huh? As a matter of truth, in case you watch the clip of Ailea and Whitney being confronted by the Federales, you will see two utterly totally different females. No attitudes, no cussing, no loud speaking; Ailea was such a sell-out there. She lied by denying that she ever hit or kicked Amber and blamed Whitney (her so-called fab-5 bud) faster than you can flick flies off of doo-doo.
I requested, “What occurred to ‘loopy’ then? The place did she go?” See faux loopy hops a bus when the going actually will get powerful and police get entangled. Then “loopy” is nowhere to be discovered. There was no powerful “Boston” act. Each had been as meek as church mice.
These females actually had no folks expertise and undoubtedly suffered from persona issues, however with that being the case, they wanted to be medicated and (at occasions, sedated) in a long-term, lock-down therapy facility. An old style mother or father like my mother would say, “All they want is an effective licking from their mother and father. They will be okay.”
If you have not watched this present and you’ve got kids or pre-teens, it is advisable watch it as a result of it depicts precisely what occurs when kids with little or no home-training (or those who ignore their home-training) do once they step out into the world. For some motive I had the sensation that these females in all probability dominated their houses and oldsters; instilling concern with threats of “going off” and ruling by intimidation as a result of everybody thinks they’re so “loopy.”
You place them up towards actual loopy ladies with nothing to lose; actual unhealthy women who stay and breathe to buck the system, police and anyone else they arrive into contact with and these women would get a dose of actually loopy up shut and private.
WHO WERE THE “BAD” GIRLS
First we’ve the Ambers. These two women began off again biting nearly all people in the home. And whereas they had been extraordinarily catty at occasions, I would not say they deserved what they obtained (destroyed clothes, being jumped, and so on).
Kayla aka Kaycee aka “home drunk” from Compton, Ca. This feminine made a idiot of her self on tv, shared with us her authorized troubles and virtually bragged about utilizing males to pay the payments. She confirmed no disgrace in performing like a schoolyard bully all through her quick time in the home and finally left after assaulting one of many Ambers over…a tip.
Amber B. is from Montevideo, MN and was merely misplaced in house in case you ask me. She gave an entire new which means to the phrase “Blonde Dumb.” I would not agree that she’s aggressive. She was mousey than anything and shameless along with her hypocrisy and cowardice. The truth that she was in an abusive relationship tells you numerous about why she was performing as she did within the mansion. I pray she has gone into remedy and put 10,000+ miles between her and the abusive former boyfriend.
Amber M. of Seattle, WA, supposedly grew up sheltered and poor, however you would not have recognized that by the way in which she acted. She did stand her floor on a number of events and one should give her a pat on the again for these moments, however different occasions I believe she simply did issues simply to be doing them. I believe she was consideration starved for essentially the most half and immature. The finale dinner incident was Amber M type all the way in which. She appeared to like sexual escapades and tossing herself on the market simply as she did throughout her telephone dialog with Tiffany’s “brother” and when he arrived she appeared to behave true to her phrases solely to have a change of coronary heart or a revelation (relying on who you ask) on the ceremonial dinner. She mentioned she felt “uncomfortable” with what Tiffany’s “brother” did to her as she “slept.” Was it actual or just her final drama-queen act, scene eight?
Ailea of Buford, GA, was foolish, whiny and clearly emotionally unstable. Are there any nuclear waste vegetation in Buford, Georgia? As a result of she certain acted like she was affected by some form of beginning defect. This feminine slept with nearly anybody she got here into contact with and even requested her housemates as soon as, “Am I a slut.” I screamed out, “Heck yeah!” Ailea initially got here off as this frail, teary-eyed chick that simply could not date offline. She shortly outgrew that. She went from frail fairy to Loopy Mary by the tip of the present and I used to be comfortable to see her go. Her efficiency (as a result of that is precisely what it was) wasn’t worthy of an Oscar…possibly a straitjacket and a double shot of Penicillin, however no Oscar. It was like watching somebody with turret’s syndrome.
After which she uncovered herself on nationwide tv as a wimp and sell-out. This so-called “Dangerous Woman” bragged about being down and being a journey or die chick…but when the Federales confirmed up and talked about Mexican jail and legal prices, “Loopy Mary” quieted down and shortly served her Dangerous Woman buddy up as Taco meat. And spot that she by no means as soon as bragged to the Federales about her kicking Amber like she did in the home in a while. How cowardly of this self-proclaimed “unhealthy, powerful Woman.” Ailea wants a severe psychological well being analysis, not as a result of I believe she’s really mentally ailing, however extra so for her to spend 48 hours on an acute care ward in an actual, lock-down facility the place precise mentally ailing persons are.
It’s going to scare her straight when one in every of them stalks and preys upon her like she appeared to get pleasure from doing to her housemates. Then, when she’s launched let her spend a while in county jail round actual unhealthy women who would doubtless do worse to her for an entire lot lower than she did Amber. I can assure you this need to-be unhealthy lady will not be practically as loud or powerful in a jail cell with somebody who’d beat her behind only for taking a look at her or him unsuitable.
Whitney of Boston, Mass. On the reunion we be taught that “Boston” wasn’t even from Boston. She’s from Lynnfield or someplace north of Boston. Typical of a suburbanite who desires to be powerful so unhealthy, she’ll lie about being from town simply to look powerful. Basic child-like habits. You simply need to giggle at this contradictory, loud, self-absorbed, need to-be feminine thug who appeared to suppose that her being from Boston really instilled concern in folks. “You by no means hit somebody with a shoe,” she screamed, “For those who’re an actual lady from Boston, you by no means hit anyone with something aside from your bodily components.” Throughout her immature, contradictory rant the cameras flashback to an early limo scene displaying Miss “Boston” taking off her shoe and attempting to hit her housemates whereas offended.
Somebody ought to have hit her with a dictionary and a few class. She did the state and other people of Boston a extreme injustice by the way in which she represented the Metropolis of Boston on tv. True, she did not show any slutty habits like the opposite 4, however she greater than made up for that along with her mouth. This was one other one I used to be comfortable to see go. I could not assist however discover how she simmered down fairly simply when the Federales paid her tail a go to after that assault. She did not get ballistic with them. Issues that make you go hmmm. Can anybody say PUNK? BULLY? See, when the going actually will get powerful and hard reveals up, a need to-be thug will at all times cower.
Sarah is from Milwaukee, WI and was as comfortable as a lark when her unfold appeared in Playboy. It was virtually like that was a significant accomplishment for her. Not so unusual for somebody with extreme insecurity points. She was proud to tell us her boobs had been actual (as if we cared) and successful meaningless contests. I did not get any drama-queen vibes from her performances, however she was undoubtedly coping with some points. All I can say about her is making up for misplaced time is cool, however keep in mind Choose Judy’s well-known saying, “Magnificence fades…dumb is endlessly.” You will not at all times have that physique (particularly not consuming like a runaway slave and laying round like coma affected person) so work in your long-term, marketable property in order that when the boobs sag and the junk-in-your-trunk has light, you can make a residing at an actual job.
Ashley (cannot recall the place she was from) changed Kaycee and appeared to be a behind-the-scenes instigator, whereas attempting to look impartial. She’s one other one which appears to suppose life revolves round her physique and appears. And now we’ve Tiffany aka Tiff Bear. Tiffany hailed from Chicago, IL and was an clever feminine who did not appear to be as unhealthy because the others. She, like Kaycee, appeared to have a factor for thugs. The phone conversations she and boyfriend “Skeet” had as he smoked his blunt’s had been odd.
, with him and his “methods” within the background. Why an attractive, seemingly clever girl could be “in love” with a unemployed, blunt smoking thug is past me, however she appeared to be rationalizing it in her thoughts, so extra energy to her. Tiffany performed the quiet one at first till she needed to cuss Kaycee out after which Amber B. Really, I sort of agreed along with her finale flip-out. Amber M. appeared to be going for one final dig on the night of the dinner. Scene 34, act 50. She ought to have spoken up and never been speaking about “bouncing up on it” with a person she did not know. I believed she was drunk within the “really feel up” scene, however she mentioned she was sleeping.
I did not actually purchase Tiffany’s “sincerity” in Mexico after the wolf pack assault although. Her Oscar successful efficiency in Mexico was humorous. She instigated and stoked the fires of the opposite dimwits after which after it blew up and it turned obvious that people had been going to be getting the boot, she steps out of the shadow of her “crew” to play the peacemaker and mediator. Girlfriend did not wish to get the boot for her half so she acquired on Cookie’s (Amber M.) good facet and earned some pats on the again for her “mediation”. She turned on her buddies and let two-faced Ailea have it, however I could not assist however see it as a veil try to deflect consideration from her half in that nonsense.
I believe girlfriend noticed an eviction discover sooner or later after Whitney acquired the boot and devised a fast plan to save lots of her personal tail. She turned on Ailea fairly fast. Good transfer, Tiff Bear. And to throw in acknowledgment of her contribution to the animosity was priceless. She saved her spot within the mansion and he or she deserves a gold star for that. As soon as once more, all in all, Tiffany didn’t come off as unhealthy as her housemates, however she performed the passive-aggressive position higher than any Emmy Award successful actress I’ve ever seen. One week, a pacesetter. The following week, a follower. The week after that, an instigator after which, she would go into her “Oprah” mode and play the position of “Mom love.” I hope she has grown and resolved her passive-aggressive points… and never courting any blunt smoking, trick dealing with hood rats…and destroys her copy of the time she spent on this foolish present in order that her kids and future husband and employers do not ever see it.
This is my over-all tackle the “Dangerous Ladies” creed:
A Dangerous Woman is aware of what she desires and how you can get it. She makes her personal manner, makes her personal guidelines and he or she makes no apologies.
REALITY: Making no apologies while you’re unsuitable and getting what you need on the expense of others, is not being a nasty lady, it is being a narcissistic idiot. The sort of mentality will go away you disliked, not revered and sure behind lots of traces all through life as you come to search out out that the world doesn’t revolve round you. At age 18, 21, and so on you are now not a lady. You are presupposed to be a lady (as so a lot of them declare they had been). And an actual girl is aware of when and how you can apologize when she’s finished unsuitable.
A Dangerous Woman blazes her personal path and removes obstacles from her path. A Dangerous Woman fights and forces her strategy to the highest with type and wonder.
REALITY: None of you used type or magnificence throughout this present. Okay, the one type you represented was thug and little one type.
A Dangerous Woman believes in leaping first and searching later.
REALITY: Improper! Whenever you’re younger and silly, you reside by this mantra, however while you develop up, you understand that introspection will at all times enable you to make higher selections.
Folks will love you. Folks will hate you. Others will secretly want to be you. A Dangerous Woman is you!
REALITY: Improper, once more. You all represented unhappy women with unhealthy attitudes. And if anybody really loves you, they’re going to inform you that your habits and antics on this present had been extraordinarily un-lady like and downright infantile. Nobody hates you. And Hell no, we don’t secretly want to be you or anyone that can clown themselves on nationwide tv getting thrown out of bars, a COUNTRY or a present. And within the days of extraordinarily excessive STD charges; STD’s that may kill you and go away you sterile… I recommend you all get examined and gradual your roll earlier than you find yourself in an early grave or a quarantine unit coughing up blood and mucus. No first rate man desires a dirty girl with herpes chilly sores throughout her mouth and genitalia as a result of she thought being a “unhealthy lady” who would screw the morning time was cute.
Backside line: all the females stored it actual…actual dumb, actual immature and actual foolish. There may be nothing enticing, ladylike or actual about being damaging, disrespectful, promiscuous, boastful or immature. Dangerous women who do not develop up and act like ladies find yourself lifeless or in jail. A good man does not need a grown girl bragging about beating folks up, getting thrown out of bars, screwing random males and being pleased with being a thug. Belief me.
Being on the present was supposed to finish with these females rising and altering but they appeared to worsen because the present wore on. The one time I noticed any tears or heard something that resembled private development and private accountability was once they had been afraid of being booted off the present. Their confessionals confirmed no glimmer of private development not to mention actual change. It was unhappy.
Watching this present, you see a bunch of youngsters in an enormous home operating the road all night time, entering into mayhem and cursing worse than sailors; they needed to struggle everybody (and virtually did) and could not go anyplace with no struggle breaking out. They had been like little women whose mother and father had been gone for the weekend they usually had been simply doing no matter they needed. They tore up this stunning home and left it trying like a trash dump. I’m wondering what they’re households and mates thought? Most likely the identical factor I’d marvel if I had been their mother or father: “Heavenly Father, the place did I’m going unsuitable?”
It is nice to stay out loud, women, but when you are going to conduct yourselves within the method wherein all of you probably did on nationwide tv…it is likely to be finest that you just stay it quietly as a result of past the cameras, you get arrested or beat down (or each) while you go round performing insane.
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